How to Make Someone Fall in Love with You

Published on October 9, 2013 by thomasall

Filed under Love and Romance

Last modified October 8, 2013

Print this page

rate 1 star rate 2 star rate 3 star rate 4 star rate 5 star
Your rating: none, Average: 5 (5 votes)

This article have been viewed 22579 times

Fall in loveWinning over a person’s heart is indeed a tedious process. It takes a lot of careful and well planned steps in making a person go head over heels for you. But it is possible and can be done by anyone. You need not be six-pack guy, or a size-zero girl for this to happen to you.

Find the person whom you wish to woo. If you have found that person, then a large part of the work is done. If you do not know what it is that you want then how can you possibly imagine getting that? Finding the right person takes a lot scrutiny and search.

Be the best of what you are. Have confidence in yourself. Nobody is perfect. Everyone has their own flaws. If you want someone to fall in love with, look at yourself through their eyes. Be the person someone would love to fall in love with. Love yourself and take good care of yourself.

Physical appearance does not have much value in true love. But still, you are first judged by your physical appearance. And first impression matters a lot. So try to be physically fit. A healthy body with a strong posture adds to the confidence of a person.

Being in love is not a cakewalk

Do not consider being in love an easy task. You have responsibilities, you need to be supportive and caring. Your maturity is put to test when you enter a relationship. So be prepared for the emotional hurdles that may come at you. But remember the journey is too wonderful to give up just because of a few hurdles.

Read your counterpart

You need to be able to understand the heart and read the mind of your love. You should be able to decipher each of their expressions clearly. Understand what’s on their mind, without even having to ask them.

Be ready to share with them. You need to be emotionally available for them. Be yourself when you are with them. Do not try to be cool or try too hard to look good in front of them. They must love you for who you are and not for what you pretended that you are. An easy way to make them feel that you are not being fake is to share their passions.

One cannot force himself to be passionate about a particular thing, just so that he can impress the other person. So if you are actually passionate about their hobbies too, then it is easier for you to open up to them and stay close to them.

Help them improve themselves

Your presence must turn out to be a boon for them. Don’t always try to be nice. Take a stand on subjects. If need be, correct them, in a way that makes them realise how much you care for them. Make them see that being with you makes them a much better person. A happier person.

Do not choke them with love

Never love a person to an extent that you turn into an obsessive freak. Everyone loves freedom as much as you do. Everyone needs their space. Don’t be over zealous about the relationship. Too much attention makes it seem like you don’t a job or you have nothing better to do. Which in turn might give them the idea that, your love is actually a time pass.

Make a commitment and stay truthful to it. Never let jealousy and ego take over you. Ego is the biggest enemy of a relationship. Even in times of emotional disturbance, keep reminding yourself that you love that person. And no matter what they do, you will still keep showering them with love.

Leave a Comment